Has your relationship lost its flare? Has the day to day routines meant a boring time and the monotony of life brought your love life down? Well there’s still hope for you and your partner. You just need to get your flirt back. Many times, the chase of the relationship is what’s missing.
You remember the times when you couldn’t hardly wait to see that significant other or you couldn’t wait to get their call. Sometimes it’s not what you say, but what you do. So that means you take the time and effort to go out of your way sometime and let that special someone know that you were thinking of them. I know for many women, they are into the details. Often times it’s the little things that can mean so much. Men like to know that you appreciate them, too. Kind words and thoughtful gestures can go a long way for someone that wants your affection and reassurance that they are still in your heart and mind. IF you are still clueless to what I am referring to then here are some suggestions.
Remember the saying “no one cares how much you know until they know how much you care.” So when you automatically try to solve your loved ones problems and try to fix what is ailing them on the job, first listen. That is the first two letters of flirt. Just sit down and really listen to what your loved one is telling you. If you can try to get them to put an emotion label to their words, often it is easier to understand where they are coming from. This is when you can use your touch to reach out and rub their arm or simply touch their hand while they are explaining their terrible day. You can transform their troubles into a new found bond with you through just some kind words that say “I love you and I’m here for you.”
The seven non-sexual touches in a day that let your loved one know that you care are important. These are those little hugs, and little affectionate touches that can mean so much. Another one is taking ordinary and turning it into extraordinary. Whether it is dinner, or bath time you can go get some sparkle and fire up flames of desire. Setting the mood with candles, adding a special playlist for music, aromatherapy, or incense can add a new flavor of passion that everyone craves. With just a few extra little details, you can turn your housewife into a love goddess by showing her how much you appreciate and love her. You can write them love notes or create a romance coupon book of favors for just him or her. The king of the castle will roar when he gets special treatment from his lady that can create memories and evoke a new found passion that reignites your passion for each other. This kind of relationship building is not just for special occasions, and you can have this year round as long as it is genuine.
There are many ways to say “I love you” and it starts with being open with what you want and you desire. Couples therapy can help you get started with healthy communication strategies so that you and your loved one can have the best love affair that you never had. Communication is the key and it does not have to always be in words. Those little gestures and time spent caressing each other can spark up a passion that is not like anything else you have ever experienced.